We don’t love each other; we love the idea we have of each other. Very few humans understand this or can bear to contemplate it. All love, ultimately, is self-love. 我们爱的不是彼此。我们爱的是我们对彼此的想法。很少人认识到这一点或者受得了这么去想。说到底，所有的爱都是对自己的爱。